If you believe you are unlucky in love this article is for you. Love relates to everything across the board, including prosperity, success, peace of mind, and of course, success in friendships and romantic relationships. Today we are going to be focusing on why you’re feeling unlucky in love, and the main issues that might be in your way when it comes to finding a meaningful and fulfilling relationship.
What Are the Main Reasons You’re Unlucky in Love?
So lots of people today are saying that they are unlucky in love, but most of them don’t seem to actually know why that is.
Why does it seem that everyone else is happy and dating and you are stuck in a rut and can’t seem to find love?
If you consider yourself unlucky in the love department, here are some of the main reasons why that might be, as well as ways to break the cycle and be able to find exactly what you’re looking for.
Repeating Old Patterns
For some people the main reason they might be feeling unlucky in love is because they are stuck in a pattern of dating the same type of person over and over again. All without realizing that this might be the primary reason they feel unhappy and unfulfilled in all their relationships.
The best advice we can give you if you’re stuck in such a situation, is to get out of your comfort zone and give people who aren’t usually your ‘type’ a chance. You’ll be amazed by how people can surprise you when you’re least expecting it, and you might even end up finding happiness and love in a person you would never normally go for.
Not Being Proactive
Another common reason why people feel stuck and unhappy is the fact that they have simply left everything in fate’s hands and are hoping that the right person will simply come to them.
Unfortunately, that’s not how things work. Even though we’ve all heard of a few of those unbelievably romantic stories where people just meet and fall in love at first sight, reality is usually completely different.
Although we’re not saying that this cannot happen to you, if you want to make sure that you do find your soulmate, you’re going to have to be more proactive and work on getting over your limiting fears that are holding you back.
Not Putting Your Best Foot Forward
The ability to put yourself out there and feel comfortable in your own skin are often the two deciding factors when it comes to finding love. If you don’t feel good about yourself, you’ll be putting out a negative, non-inviting energy, and no one will be able to pick up on all those wonderful qualities you possess.
So if getting to a point of feeling comfortable in your own skin takes some practice for you, go ahead and practice. Take yourself out – don’t wait for somebody else to do it!
Carrying Your Baggage from Your Past Relationships
Another big reason why people might feel unlucky in love is because they’re carrying the baggage and emotions of their previous relationship into their new one. Holding onto these emotions and memories from your past, without clearing and processing your past can be a huge crutch, and stop you from enjoying what you have in the moment, in your current relationship.
Holding onto these types of feelings and emotions will make you put out negative energy into the world. You will attract negativity in future relationships as a result.
That’s why it’s important to always process your emotions and everything you’ve experienced during your previous relationship or relationships, before jumping into a new one.
If you’re still feeling unlucky in love and you don’t want to be in the dark about your love life anymore, you can get help with a love psychic reading. You can ask all the questions you have about your past relationships and your love life in general, in an attempt to figure out where you’ve gone wrong, and what you can do to break that cycle. Another way to ask all the questions you want and stop being unlucky in love is with a Tarot reading.
The best and final advice that we can give you is to simply go out there, start dating and work on being the person who you’d want to date; take a chance on love, because that’s the only way for love to find you.